Monday, May 28, 2012

Pre-holiday romps part.1

It's the end of the year, i'm officially on holiday and i'm ready to go back home for an extended vacation. 2 full months of revisiting old life, hanging out with old friends, eat well, drink well, the sun the sea and the beach. Before the holiday begins, I have things to sort out things first. The fact that it's hard for me to get laid in an asian country. weird but true. Maybe it's just my build or the way i carry myself, It seems that everytime i go back home, everything seems to be perfect but no one was attracted to me. so the idea of not getting laid for 2 months was getting closer, i felt that i just had to do one thing. MAN BINGE. ou yea, William was turning into such a big slut. getting laid as much as possible before my big man drought. Honestly, i don't have sex that much. around once or twice a month. not that I don't want to but I have pretty busy schedule during the weeks that finding time to have sex is hard. Also i don't have a fuck buddy on call since my last one dumped me. But I do have couple of guys on my address book that i could invite over whenever our time match. Also I prefer to have sex with people that i know. repeats are always welcome on Will's book. I logged on grindr, scruff and manhunt. I had a lot of close calls but I only managed to see some guys. 2 of them are new. sort of. I'm just gonna write some of the memorable ones.

Guy #1. Wally.

He looks like an older version of Gotye
Wally and me had been chatting on manhunt for ages but we had never met up until before Christmas. His profile stated that he's 45. vers/top. 6'3". 90kgs. slim smooth. prefers asians, slim smooth. he never put his face pic but judging from his torso pic, he possess the most athletic body ever for someone his age. He responded to my profile one night on manhunt. i had a profile with food euphemisms, it's very vague and it's every man to decipher it. and He was interested in engaging a conversation with me. i thought that he was out of my league. i'm not slim as he prefers on his profile. One day i saw his profile on grindr. i said hello, we never really had a chat, we ping pong messages, we mostly talked about food and nothing really naughty. I thought he was just partnered to a guy, and in open relationship as usual most quality guys are partnered. Usually I don't go for this kind of guy but he was really interesting as we could finishes each other sentences. Then he dropped the bomb, he told me that he's partnered. to a woman! I was kinda turned off by this fact but i was amazed on how our conversation flows like water. he was very interested in food. we're both big foodie. we talk about food and wine most of the time for weeks. nothing sexual has been discussed but I knew that he was interested to see me. So a week before my departure i asked him if he was available. he told me he was pretty busy as he had to go on a holiday with the partner to visit families and he needed to meet his fuck buddy for last fuck before new years. but if he was really interested in meeting me. so he told me that if he could go for another round maybe i could meet him later at night. we could play in the bath house. I waited and he messaged me if i wanted to meet. I agreed to meet him, it was around 9.30pm, he picked me up. I didn't expect much i mean he didnt reveal his face, so i didn't know what he looked like. so I was quite surprised when i opened the car door theres a good looking mature man. He is the quiet type in real life. He is much chattier online but we seemed to connect. Once we got to the bath house, we tested our chemistry by kissing inside the steam room. My gosh, he was such a great kisser. he complimented me with the way kiss, obviously we had the x chemistry. We were pretty hot and wild there. we attracted an audience, a petite asian guy who wanted to join us. I never fond of threesome, and that guy was very persistent to join. I thought he would ditch me, but no he wasn't attracted with him (and the petite guy was a really bad kisser). He suggested us to get a room. so we did. It was full of passion. every moves was very sensual. not animal style but it was more like love making. we explored each other's body and he possess the most amazing body i've ever touched. lean, almost muscular, small bottom but rock hard as steel. The opposite of me, I am half solid and half fat, cuddly and huggable. round. and The way he kissed, so passionate. He worshipped my body, explored every inch of my skin. I couldn't remember the last time i had sex like this. I forgot all my reservations about him (bi, partnered to a woman) just let all my inhibitions out. We didn't even use any enhancers, it was just pure passion.  He let me in charge that night. So i was the top. I knew he usually the "top". He enjoyed it very much. I really enjoy eing a top of a man who's taller than me as I am just under 6 feet and He is 6'3". Almost every 5 minutes, he complimented me with my moves and kept thanking me. I was such in a natural high. He was impressed with my moves. never jack rabbit sex, but slow and passionate. I let him top me for a few moments. and oh boy he was also a very good top! All about him was just so sexy, and pasionate. we cuddled, kiss, fuck, change position, then do it again in repeats. We didn't care about the time. I almost didn't care about finishing. it was just the sensation of making love to this man gave me the rush. it was almost tantric. i love it. every single moment of it. Then it happened, i finished inside him. It's very rare when i finish inside someone. I was happy, we were both exhausted.  We checked out the time and it was 2am by the time we left the bath house. we were there since 10pm. It was a record for me. I've never done it with anyone for that long before. continuously.
That body for a 55 years old man. 
I just couldn't believe his level of energy, i mean he did it with his fuck buddy earlier that day then he did it again with me. I told him that he must be joking about his age. He put 45 as his age but obviously he possess stamina of someone who's younger. and He told me "I lied, i'm actually 55". I was shell shocked. His appearance looks like he's 35 years old. (face + body). energy of a 25 years old, yet he is 55 years old. WOW, unbelieable. Maybe it's all the cycling, the swimming and the sex plus his love of food makes him young and happy. Until today i still couldn't believe that he's 55 years young.
He dropped me home then he sent me a message telling me how much he enjoyed that night. A gentleman, he also sent me a text after. We would keep in touch after, i figure he's a keeper even though I couldn't keep him forever and he's not mine, also falling in love with this man means trouble for me. I just have to enjoy it and let it go. I don't want to be addicted with him. I'd describe the whole encounter with him as eating at a really expensive restaurant. Something that you do once in a while, you will rave about it forever, but you could never eat there everyday. He's a 3 michelin stars. 4 hours of full passion, it went beyond my wildly expectation...

There's more stories about wally coming up soon....

part 2 up shortly...

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

One of those weekends, with grindr.

One weekend night few months ago. I received a very suggestive picture from grindr. Hmm.. It looks yummy. It was 2 am in the morning. i was just about to go to sleep. but i was horny so i replied to his empty profile. We exchanged pics and we were both content of what we saw. He suggested me to come over to his place, not far from his place, just 5 min by cab but impossible to walk. He sent me his face pic, very good looking late 30s, 6'2" tall, great body and the most amazing cock i have ever seen. "It was long pink and amazing, it's dickalicious" My inner Samantha was calling. So i came over to his place in one of the most affluent suburb of the country. it was a $10 cab ride but what the hell i was horny and i needed some action. He told me that all the doors to his apartment was slightly ajar so i just came in without him buzzing me up. I walked nervously and it was low dimmed light over the corridor thinking if i went to the wrong apartment. Then there he was on the the bed lying on his back and he told me to undress and we started our action. It was anonymous, sensual and hot. It was the biggest dick i've ever taken in my whole life and he was interested in sucking me off the whole night. We had a good time although it was hurt for me bottoming for him but it seems that i was ready to take his big talent inde me. He was a good fucker, I enjoyed it very much. He didn't finish his reason that he had jerked off twice that day. i finished inside his mouth. then we collapsed and cuddle after.

After 5 minutes of cuddling, he asked me where i was from. This question is always on everybody's mind every time they hear me started talking. I told him just guess.  He guessed "Canada, or The US, or the Philippines" Wrong answers. I said i may have the accent but that was not where i was from. My accent seems to confuse a lot of people and i gave him more hints and he couldn't guessed correctly. I said I came from Indonesia and I studied in International School, that's where i got my accent. To my surprised, he started talking to me in broken Indonesian. I was in shocked. I met a lot of Australian guys who have connection to my country but never met anyone who speak my language. He told me that he used to live there for some time because his dad owned few business and properties in bali then he told me that his dad deals business with XX and I was utterly in shocked. XX is the son of a former president and he did a little bit of business with my dad back then and XX's family is very close to my best friend's. So we were connected somehow. There i was halfway around the world , sleeping with a stranger then we found out that we had somehow a weird twisted connection. Isn't the world small enough?? So i get dressed, but before i left i asked him for a glass of water. I looked around his apartment it was a nice and big place . there are artworks everywhere, litreally hundreds of pieces from paintings to sculptures. He seemed to be a lover and collectors of art. There was one particular handmade wooden toy i eyed on and he told me "Oh yeah that was my favorite, I got it at the auction in London" He told me he was recently single and he used to have half of the artworks and now mostly in the storage or with his ex. So i asked him what he does for a living. I assumed he's in the art industry but he told me that he worked in investment banking. and i asked him don't tell me it's X-The largest IB in Australia. He said Yes. in XX division. I was in double shocked. "How do you know?" i asked. "Just guessing". Then i explained to him that i know some people in X, XX. this is getting to awkward, so gave him a good hug and I left. I seemed to wonder, we are all connected in a way. I believe in six degrees of separations and this is the first time i encountered someone, a total stranger in another country a person that's different race than i cam yet we have a lot of connection. The world is that small. so I left freaked out but amazed on how the universe worked itself out. I wonder if he felt the same thing too. I never seen him online again after that night. He seemed to be a nice and respectful gentleman. It was great one night stand.

Can you find the "one" in a sea of people?
I went back home and it's almost 4 am. I remembered that Breakfast at Bondi is on in couple of hours. I called up my friend he was asleep and i told him to meet me in bondi beach in an hour. It wasn't planned but when we get there with the orchestra and the sunrise. It was one of the best thing i've ever seen. Food, Sunrise, Beach, Music. It was perfect. I told my friend what happened that night and he couldn't believe it too. He warned me that i spent too much time on grindr. maybe i have. but i kept in on the whole time that morning in Bondi. Maybe i was just horny allt he time that morning. hoping to get more actions. There are 2 guys messaged me. One i wasn't very interested in. so i blocked.

The other one was very interesting. we were chatting for almost an hour and we relied on the gps function to reveal how close we are. when my friend went to the bathroom, i saw that this guy was 70 metres away from me. i looked around and there's this guy who fits the profile. I came to approach him and there we were. 2 strangers. one app. one impromptu date. It was kinda awkard at first but we broke the ice. I asked him what he was looking for? he told me he didn't know. He's late 30's something. quite good looking. He told me that he's partnered and he just came out years ago. and he's been in a relationship since. He didn't know what he was looking for but he just kept looking. It was a nice conversations for half an hour. My friend was looking for me. so I ended it and said goodbye. I haven't talked to him after since. I sent him a message once. just a friendly one, he didn't reply. oh well.

I left Bondi beach at 9ish and made my way home. It was a nice weekend. I met two guys and it was something that i could turn my experience into writing. I hope day after day my life would me more and more interesting.


Tuesday, May 15, 2012

The fuck buddy

As a single man, I have someone to call to whenever i feel restless... We met in a modern way, grindr. it was a while ago when I just discovered the wonder of this beautiful iphone application. He's an older gentleman 50+, a baldie, shorter than me and he's still got it. We had a nice chat and he invited me over to his house in Pyrmont one winter evening 2 years ago. I ditched my friends because i was horny. let's call him James. When he answer the door i didn't expect much, it seems that we don't have any emotional connection. He gave me a glass of water and we sat and watched some Danish crime drama and family guy episodes (He's a major fan of Seth Mcfarlane's work). He didn't talk much and I didn't see to have much connection with him but when we hit the bedroom, it seemed that we had that chemistry. He liked my body, worshipped me head to toe. we reciprocated some oral action and he was always handy with enchancer called poppers. I personally didin't like poppers at that time but he introduced me to it. I felt like an animal in bed. I discovered the joy of chemicals rushing into my veins. I have allergy with certain drugs and i usually don't do wired sex but he seduced me and i was caught in the moment. He possess the most beautiful body of a 50+ years old could imagine. muscular with an ass of steel. We rarely do anal but our bodily contact action was already enough to get both of us off. twice. We bonded like animals, literally.

He disappeared after that one night. He blocked me. I figured he was partnered but i didn't seem to care about it. whatever, i had a great one night stand. as i walked back home from his place passing through darling harbor and anzac bridge i had that smile on my face.

He came back to my life one day after new years day last year. We met up again after 6 months, then it became a regular thing for us to meet throughout the year. We could meet once or twice a month. Getting to his place was tricky as i have to take cabs. he booty called me in the middle of the night whilst i was studying. and whenever i'm under pressure, the greater it is the hornier i am. That cab fare to his place is always worth it. We've met each other quite often but we never really talked about our personal lives much. I saw the ring on his finger and i asked him if he was married. He said he was married but divorced long time ago. I asked him if he was single and he said yes. I am an inquisitive person but i had no interest of asking this man out for more because i know it's just sex and that's it. Up until that point i had never slept over at anyone's place. I was that guy who always leaves.

Fast forward 10 months after, I was already on holiday. It was a while since i last saw him. he texted me one night and i was horny. but i told him that i was broke and i couldn't afford a cab fare. he said he'll paid for it and i could stay at his that night. I was a little reluctant but i was horny so whatever. i jumped on a cab and he was waiting in front of his apartment building with $50 note. i gave him a chewing gum as a token. this is my thing, i never wanted to come as a whore. We did something a little different, as i was on holiday, he asked me if i smoked pot. i said i only do it in holiday time and i don't really like pot. but i didn't mind a blow or two. So we got stoned and we watched sealab 200, another adult animation, it was funny after we got wired. We jumped to the bedroom and we sniffed that fresh pack of poppers. I was so high and the sex was amazingly, MINDBLOWING. i've never felt that way before. it was abselutely fantastic. we had that bodily action for more than an hour without any break. I was such in a high then suddenly BOOM! I crashed, i felt extremely tired and i couldn't fisnish. It felt both poppers and the weed were wearing off and the magic was gone. I was so frustrated and tired so i just went to sleep. I felt uncomfortable sleeping on someone else's bed but we cuddled the whole night. He woke up in the morning, we did it again soberly this time. it wasn't great but okay, i'm not a big fan of morning sex. We didn't have breakfast together but he asked me if i wanted some bread and spreads with fresh juice. i helped myself and i saw a pic of him with this another asian guy, so i asked him, is that your boyfriend he replied,"yes" then i said "oh i thought you were single". "We've been together for a while now". Oh okay, so he lied to me, but i didn't care much, we left the apartment at the same time but in the opposite direction. No goodbyes, very uneventful. i walked down to the city where i caught my bus in the middle of the morning rush hour. I rarely that side of sydney in the morning, it was quite beautiful and people and rushing to get to work. It was a great morning.

After few weeks i got a text message from a familiar number, it was from him. "Hi mate. a quick email to let you know I won't be playing anymore. Am trying to change a few things & one is the extra fun. Can't deny with you it was hot but there are bigger things to think about. All the best! Cheers."
It was a surprised. but i didn't feel hurt or neglected i felt thankful that he told me this. so I was officially dumped by my fuck buddy. :) So i relied to him back "No worries mate! It was nice knowing you we did had great time. Take care and good luck! all the best for you." No reply. I never seen him online again for months until we had one conversation one evening when i was near his area. He didn't seem to look for sex, just reminiscing our great time together and he said his bf is coming soon. That was the end of our conversation. It seemed that he blocked me or he deleted his grindr. his profile was gone and that's the end of the story.

I was a pleasure to know him, we had such great time together but i guess he was right, maybe there are bigger things to think about. I've moved on and he's just a great memory. Also another lesson learnt. Do not mix poppers and weed. yes it's one of the greatest sex moments for me but the crash at the end of it it ain't worth it. I don't think i won't do wired sex anymore, not anytime soon. and hopefully never.


Away from blogging

Greetings everyone, i have been away from blogging for so long until i discovered that blogger has new look. i hate it. it's not as convenient as the last one. but i'll try to write again shortly and keep my fellow readers updated. it's been so long, a lot of things has happened but i'm still single as always. Always looking for love. always looking for the thrill. I am a single gay man living in one of the gayest cities in the world. and this is my adventure. in search of love.